Care for the Caregiver: When the child becomes the parent

A caregiver’s group to assist adult caregivers with finding loving ways to care for themselves while caring for a parent with dementia

  • Who’s this for? Anyone who’s currently caring or anticipates caring for a parent with dementia.
  • Objectives include: Prioritize self-care, connect with likeminded caregivers lead by a mental healthcare and relatioship expert.
  • What’s the group about?
    • Creating a safe, secure, and supportive mental and spiritual health care environment for adult caregivers of parents with Dementia.
    • Helping adult caregivers manage the emotiional struggles that comes with the role reversal that happens when caring for aging parents in general, especailly those with dementia.
    • Providing an empathtic community of support with other adult children caring for parents with dementia.

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Caregiver’s Group Session Curriculum

Group Meeting Details:

Number of Sessions: 6 Group Sessions

Meeting Days: Thursdays

Medium: Zoom

Time: (1-hr.) 7:00-8:00 p.m. Central

First Session : February 6, 2025

Final Session: March 13, 2025

Zoom: Link provided at checkout

PART ONE: ABOUT EVERYTHING & EVERYBODY ELSE

Session 1:

Introduction:

  • General Information: Days, Times, Fee, Process
    • What’s new,
    • How you dealth with it,
    • Today’s focus,
    • Homework,
    • Journal (optional),
    • (Overtime? How would you like to manage overtime?)
  • Confidentiality
  • Rules of Engagement
  • Why you’re here
  • What to expect
  • Why this class is needed
  • Share time
    • What has been your experience with dementia?
    • Your current situation (and what you hope to accomplish by the end of our 6 weeks)

Session 2: Caretaking 101 (Potential topics include…)

  • Dealing with your biggest fears about the disease
  • Common challenges of children of parents with dementia
  • How to face inevitable helplessness
  • Watching parents suffer (weight loss, etc)
  • Unpredictability of parent’s behavior
  • Not wanting anyone to know our “family secret”
  • Why might we deny the truth of the matter
  • OTHER FEARS
    • Dying before your parent
    • Concerns about the imminence of death
    • Wanting the caregiving to end (guilt)
    • Fear about the DNA component of the disease
    • Fear of the inevitable possibility

Session 3: God?  SIGNS of Anger & Guilt & Shame

First: Where’s God in all of this? (as applicable)

    • With parents/ the disease/self/siblings/system(s)/family)
    • Negative thoughts
    • Not wanting to care give
    • Parents request
    • Being mean
    • Asking for help
    • Financial Cost (unpreparedness)
    • Ignorance
    • Impatience with process
    • Impatience with parents  needs\
    • OTHER STRUGGLES
      • Violent uncharacteristic behaviors
      • Loss of social life
      • THE SCARY question: Why?

PART TWO: ME, MYSELF , AND I

Session 4 : Self-Reflection

  • How well do you know you?
  • What did you learn? About you? About your parent? About process?
  • What surprised you the most?
  • What does support from others look like for you?
  • What gaps do you have in your learning?
  • Changes you’ve seen in yourself since you began the caregiving journey?
  • What do you still need help with?
  • Any tools that helped you, that you can share with others?
  • What have you said to yourself that you wouldn’t say aloud to others?

Session 5-6

CASE STUDIES-VOLUNTEERS TO SHARE SPECIFIC STORIES: Triumphs, 

  • Mental Health: Anxiety, Depression
  • Physical health issues can arise from the demands of constant caregiving.
  • Emotioanal Health: Burnout
  • Spiritual Health: Burnoutake away from this experience

    • Let’s create a Play Book

    • Innovations for those who follow us

    • inventions

    • Create our own facility—What would you do/add

    What else is important for us to know

    Friends

    Siblings

    Children

    Parents

    Church associates

    Other organizations

    Sr. Assisted Org

INFORMATION/TOOL

National Institute on Aging (NIA). 

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