If you think you already know how to love then why would you even consider that I have something “you don’t already know” to offer? You wouldn’t, right? Another possible reason that you wouldn’t be interested in knowing about how-to-love is you are fine with things the way they are–you are accustomed to the turmoil, […]
“‘Cause I said so, now eat your vegetables!” There was a time in the history of our country that this remark would have been met with respect and obedience from a questioning, perhaps somewhat, wayward child. If I were America’s mother, this would be my attitude. It seems that some all-knowing-all-loving-supremely-sacrificing, old-school mom needs to […]
Admittedly, nearly any and everything we do in our country becomes a point of sales–we are attempting to change lives, ours included. We concoct ideas, images, ideals, gadgets, icons, etc. to make our point or our mark. How-to-love is no different. What I’m selling is a “way’” of being that is not altogether new, although […]
MLK, Jr. was assassinated over 52 years ago, but I’m guessing that Sunday morning in the US is still the most segregated time of our week. It’s interesting that on some level, we still purport to be a Christian nation, “one nation under God,” right? But, many of us have yet to experience the freedom […]
How can you get to the other side of a problem and end the punishing behavior. Knowing how-to love is a way to get there. https://youtu.be/QJ6f9utu2Wg
The truth of the matter is that to love radically is to be able to question one’s own sense of truth in favor of the relationship. I’ve got to ask at what cost does one let go of a negligible truth. Your decision is to determine if the relationship is worthy of your sacrifice.
You know the verse. If not just consider what I’m saying. https://youtu.be/KoPf1G1T3tM
Keep Practicing not knowing and see what happens. Give it time. https://youtu.be/g2FSwz3516k
How about this: If you really want to show someone that you know how to love them, try knowing nothing instead of knowing it all, even, no especially when you know it all. https://youtu.be/oBklgQBleVY
… and if you are interested in loving like God then you need to let go of what you think is normal. https://youtu.be/MupQJehCK6Y