If you give it just a bit more thought, you’d agree with me that the reason why people and things control your life–bullying you around–got your scared S—less and useless– is because you LET THEM! “How so?” you ask. There is a bully in you that has convinced you that you need external approval to be you; that you don’t have what it takes to be yourself—to just do you. So you spend your life living in fear: Fear of failure, of success, of underachieving, of obscurity, of insignificance. If it were not for the bully inside you the forces on the outside would be powerless. Your problem, then, is that you need to stand up to yourself!